On Bad Service

We were craving for Japanese food so we decided to try out Akira at Shang East wing. We heard it was good based from the feedback of my aunt who ate there 3-4 times during her 3 week visit. We were excited to try their bento due to her recommendation.

Taking into consideration that it was the day before Christmas we called up the restaurant to make sure it was open. We were happy to find out that they were open so we made a reservation for a party of six. Apparently there was no need to make a reservation since there were only 2 tables occupied when we arrived so it was easy to get seated. Everything was going as planned until....

#1: It was tough to get the attention of the servers taking into account that there were only 3 tables occupied. Instead of paying attention to their customers they were busy talking to each other and ignored us. I know it is almost Christmas, but please do your job!

#2: When a server finally approached our table, my sister asked "Anong tempura yung sa bento?" and guess what the waiter replied? "Tempura". So my sister had to restructure her question to, "Anong klaseng tempura?" But wait there more! My mom asked, "Anong meron sa bento?" and he answered "Lahat!". WTH Panira ng trip talaga.

#3: After we discussed what we wanted to order when we looked up, the server was gone and was chatting with his fellow server. A server is also known as a waiter so how come he did not wait? GRR.

We could not stand the bad service and decided to leave the restaurant. On our way out, we passed by a server and mom said, "Aalis nalang kami kasi mag oorder na sana kami pero umalis na yung waiter at pahalang pang sumagot". Then we stepped out of the restaurant.

We ended up eating in Sumosam to satisfy our Japanese craving. Nearing the end of our meal, a waiter from Akira approached us and apologized again for the incident earlier. Stalker mode alert! He also mentioned that the bastos waiter was outside and he would like to apologize too to which my mom just said no na just talk to him. As a pampalubag loob, they gave us complimentary dessert. Bumabawi?

This was the first time we walked out from a restaurant. And I would do it again if ever I will encounter bad service. We are paying customers and we do not deserve impolite servers. Good call!

On Kalokohan

Alam mo yung nakakainis kasi gumawa nanaman siya ng kalokohan pero mahal mo parin siya?

Anlungkot.

On MOMOL

Ang oras ay isang bagay na hindi naibabalik kaya dapat sulitin ang bawat sandali. Iisipin ko na lamang na kapag kaming dalawa ay tunay na nararapat para sa isa't isa ay darating din ang tamang panahon. Kapag hindi dumating ang araw na iyon ibig sabihin lamang mayroong ibang taong nararapat para sa kanya at ibang taong nakatadhana para sa akin. 

Mahirap gawin pero kailangan sapagkat ito ang nararapat. Ito na talaga...Time for MOMOL aka Move On Move On Lang. Ang pag move on ay hindi lang pagsuko. Minsan ito ay pagtanggap sa mga bagay na hindi na talaga pwede.

On </3

Alam mo yung feeling na hindi ka pwedeng magselos sapagkat hindi naman kayo? 

Alam mo yung feeling na after x number of years finally nasabi mo yung nararamdaman mo sa isang tao?

Alam mo yung feeling na after mo magtapat wala pang 12 hours makikita mo na lang na "In a relationship" siya...

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On Agony of Defeat

That feeling when you reach the semis as second seed and lose to the team you often beat during pick ups and eventually end up fourth on your bracket. That feeling when you find out that there is a trophy for third place. That feeling of pain you get when you fail to meet your goal...it sucks big time.

I ask myself, why do I waste my time and effort practicing two times a week during weekdays instead of spending time with family, having dinner with friends or going out for a date if it will only lead me to this agony? Why do I spend money traveling all the way to dirty south to play a game wherein I have no idea where the registration fee went since the field is technically free, only two portalets, no proper equipment provided, no marshals and the ice provided is limited? Why do I allow myself to get into this situation?

:(

On Shy

I'm too shy

To tell you

How I feel

Instead I'll hide behind

Timid smiles and

Wacky antics

I'm afraid

If I ask you

"what do you think of me?"

Your answer will be

"I don't. .."

:(

On Matalino vs. Marunong

Iba ang matalino sa marunong.

Ang matailno alam kung ano ang tama at kung ano ang mali.

Ang marunong gagawin kung ano ang tama.

Ang tanong e...

Matalino ka ba or marunong?

On Three Questions

1. How much have you loved?
2. How faithful are you in your vocation?
3. How gracefully can you let go of the things not meant for you?

On Insecure

I am the type of person who takes time to make kamusta people out of the blue. I do not reach out because I have a hidden agenda like I need a favor or something. I value friendship and do contact my friends to stay connected and catch up -- as simple as that. 

Question is --- Is it improper to keep in touch with your friend who is married? Does that mean if a person is already married he cannot communicate with people of the different gender?

It is not my fault that you are jealous of me. My intentions are good. Before pointing your finger at me please evaluate your marriage first. Maybe there is something wrong with your relationship and you feel insecure. Perhaps after your self evaluation you will realize that your husband is suffocating and is not happy cause he is not getting any action. Now you tell me if that is my fault.

Natatawa nalang ako. Ahihihi

On Boxing

Finally I had the time to try out the punching bag  installed at home. As I was putting on the wraps I realized that I did not know how! I even had to ask for the assistance of google.

After 30 minutes or so I was all set. I circled around the bag and gave it a jab after 1-2 steps. Not a minute elapsed I was tired! But that didn't stop me cause sayang naman yung pag wrap ko ng kamay ko. Lol. So I went for 3 more rounds and that was it! Til next time. 

On Insignificant

I do not want to be your entire world, no. I would be happy just to be your morning coffee, your hanging car keys, your wallet. Something seemingly insignificant, but if lost throws off your entire day.

-.-

On How to Comfort a Mother

It seems like the same scenario back in 2010. This time it is my grandfather who is 85 years old. He is one health conscious person. He jogs and walks everyday and does not skip his medications. Earlier yesterday he even went to the beach with my relatives.

At night we got a phone call. My cousins were rushing him to the hospital due to a suspected stroke. He was still semi conscious for he was still able to respond in a way. After a CT scan they said there was a blood clot so they suggested to transfer to another hospital that specializes on those stuff. However, the operation cannot push through right away since my grandfather was under medication.

Today, he was brought to the hospital in the city. He underwent the operation because the clot was getting bigger. He has not waken up since the procedure.

I cannot bear to see the stress my mom is undergoing. But how do I comfort a mother whose father who just underwent a stroke? How can I be strong if just by the thought of whats happening brings tears to my eyes?

I am no doctor, and all I can do is pray that my grandfather will get the right treatment and have a speedy recovery.

Kuya Jess, may Your will be done.

On Retirement Benefit

Computed my retirement benefit.

Would it be worth the wait?

I love my job!

I LOVE my job!

Now, I could only really mean it....

YES, I DO LOVE MY JOB! <3

On Pick Ups Sunday

Younger brother asked me if I wanted to join his team. I agreed because I want to get back in the groove. But I also informed him ahead of time about my limitations. Despite my conditions, his team openly accepted me.

I had my first pick up with the team earlier. It was an opportunity to meet my teammates and test out my knee. Knee felt better compared to my last stint at the Circle. I was able to play 6-8 points (I lost count) under the scorching heat without any substitutions. It was a given that my throws are a continuous work in progress. But it felt great that my teammates acknowledged my game play. I still lag behind but at least a few steps nalang.

Truly, hard work does pay off. More of it and oh yeah!!!

On Zero Dark Thirty

I did not have any background on the film thus I did not have any expectations. All I knew that it was about how OBL was killed. Despite that I still had no clue since I did not follow OBL. Now I am informed! :))

US government, CIA and those special task forces were amazing! OBL was brilliant as well. Like how he kept his identity and how he efficiently operated. They wanted to catch a terrorist and even if years passed by accompanied with deaths and tragedies, they still kept the operation. Their strategies and their “props” were at another level.  It opened my eyes on how way behind the Philippines is in terms of military know how. Also, I realized that I do not know many things. Thus, I should educate myself and update my knowledge on these subject matter.

On Interrogation

Out with college friend
What's up with all the questions?
It does not follow
----

When I got home I told my folks that won't be having dinner at home. I said that I'll have dinner out. Before I stepped out the house I informed them that I was leaving already.

So had dinner and some dessert. When I got back I didn't ring the bell and used the house keys like I always do. So I got in the gate then suddenly dad rushed out the house to see who dropped me off. When I entered the house the ladies bombarded with numerous questions. Seriously, can't I go out with someone you haven't met and not get interrogated non stop after?

Road trip

Weekend getaway
Spending time with family
What priceless moments!

On Cranium

Challenging choices:
Words, data, star performer
Creativity

Oh my Cranium!
You gave headaches and sore throats
Awesome times indeed

Hindi Mo Lang Alam

Why do people change once they enter a relationship? They act as if they are the only people in the world. They think that they are better than others.

Go ahead and snuggle and say sweet nothings to each other. Place her on a pedestal and let your world revolve around her. Enjoy being in cloud 9 cause if I am not mistaken this is your first relationship in your more than a quarter here on earth.

Am I bitter? Nope I am better cause hindi mo lang alam the person who is the apple of your eye once targeted your longtime “career” who busted you numerous times.

On Oppurtiny

Once time passes by The moment is gone forever No more turning back

On Petiks

I should be busy Yet I am doing nothing Hello Petiks life!

Rite of Passage

Goodbyes are truly tough. It makes it more difficult if you have to say farewell to something that is a huge part of your life and especially if it is something that you cannot see in the future. I am grateful and thankful for the gift of family which 664 brought. Sunday lunches that extended to dinners, board games, legal and illegal parties, amazing race, running and games in the garden, santol, avocado, star apple, rambutan, bats err, table tennis, basketball, sleepovers, library, etc. --- these are just some memorable experiences from 664. After long talks and negotiations, we have to say goodbye to this heaven here on earth.

Every new beginning comes from some other beginning’s end. Cheers to new experiences outside 664. I assure that it would be challenging to keep the bond intact but if there is a will, there is a way. May I find a righteous billionaire to marry so I could buy 664 back!